Confession

This is sort of embarrassing, but P. and I haven't done our thank you cards yet. We have excuses, but really there is no excuse. Even more embarrassing, is that we are now combining our thank you's with our holiday cards. Miss Manners would not approve.

The next two days are packed, but Saturday is sit down and write the damn things day. We have a holiday party to go to that night, and I'm banning myself from attendance unless I get the things done.

Wedding Recap: Hotel, Motel...

After we'd gotten a good look at each other, our whole crew of people walked around downtown Redding. For those of you not familiar with Redding, the downtown is a little...slow. It's picking up, but it's had a dry spell for the last fifty years or so, leaving some old motels P. and I love (to look at. We're too afraid to actually stay in one).

We started out at the Stardust Motel...

And then went down the strip, which produced some of these gems...

Who doesn't want a safety cone wedding picture? Add it to your must take list.

Our entourage. Looking very badass.

The music video shot.


This last one isn't that exciting of a picture, but the sign is just too amazing to leave out...

While there were more posed pictures in these locations, the real fun of this was just walking around. Having people honk at and congratulate us. Since our wedding was in a relatively rural location, this was our version of getting to do a parade-like walk from the ceremony to reception.

Wedding Recap: How Revealing

While not a whole lot of wedding tradition was important to P. and me, at some point we decided that P. would not see my dress before the wedding. Actually, while I was changing my mind about it on a weekly basis I attempted to show him, to get his opinion, and he wanted nothing to do with it.

But, since we knew we were going to see each other before the actual ceremony, our photographer suggested we do a reveal shot. Prior to that day we had big plans for doing it somewhere more exciting, but since the men were running late we got lazy and just went out front of the B&B.

What you can't see in this picture is that our friends were standing off to the left of the camera, laughing at us.

Sneaking up on him (though not really...I'm a very noisy walker).

At that point we basically started making out.

I think our photographer said something like "Don't you want to check each other out?" Oh, right.

Examining the eBay purchased suspenders that I ordered but didn't arrive until that day!

And then back to lovey eyes and making out...

Up next: We all romp around town in our wedding gear.

mustached.

Recently Ariel on Offbeat Bride wrote about the fake mustache trend at weddings. I have to say that I fell victim to it. Although, at the time I didn't know it was a wedding trend. I just saw a fake mustache on etsy and thought "Hey, I can make that and wouldn't they be cute at the wedding." Plus, we were doing a photobooth with costumes, so I assumed they'd be put to good use there. In fact, I'd bet that the fake mustache trend is pretty in sync with the photobooth trend. But who cares? They're both fun and I don't regret either one.

My sister twirling the tips of one of the mustaches I made.

I also ended up buying a few cheap mustaches from a local party store. They were under $1 each, and while you had to stick them in your nose to wear them, people weren't as grossed out about that as I assumed they would be.

My husband in one of the handmade ones, and me with a mustache stuck in my nose.

So maybe I'm trendy and unoriginal. But people had fun with their faux facial hair at my wedding, and years from now I bet nobody will remember that mustaches at weddings were marginally trendy for some period of time.

More mustache pictures here.

Wedding Recap: Getting ready.

If you'd like to refresh your memory (since it's been about two months), I started my recap back here.

For a variety of reasons, my husband and I decided to stay together the night before our wedding. We live together, our friends were staying in the same B&B with us, I can't really sleep without him, etc. So the morning of our wedding, we woke up together and went downstairs to the amazing breakfast our innkeeper had prepared. Our friends were already chowing down on bread pudding, bacon, and other treats, so we joined them and fueled up. As much as I tried, I didn't really eat much the rest of the day, so the huge breakfast was a very, very good thing.

After breakfast Summer, our mistress of hair, arrived. Not soon after, our photographers, Bradford & Mia Shepherd, came in and started snapping away.

Prior to these guys showing up I don't think it had really hit me that it was The Day. But having people fawn over you and take pictures of everything you do is really out of my norm, and while I wasn't nervous, it took me to a more serious place. At least until we broke out the champagne.

Don't knock canned champagne until you've tried it. They are like juice boxes for grown ups. And the champagne/sparkling wine in them isn't bad.

My brideswomen drank it up, while I sat around looking serious. I was mostly nervous about my vows. I'm terrified of public speaking, and I didn't particularly want to read something personal I'd written in front of a large group of people. On the other hand, I wanted to hear P. to say nice things about me. So this is me trying to focus on deep breathing and not being stressed about it all day.

I swear this picture wasn't set up. Our friend pulled it off the bed and stuck it there the night before. I didn't realize it was still there until I saw this picture. It's fitting though!
Once the booze kicked in we decided to start with our makeup. The downstairs room we were using for hair was deemed unfit due to bad lighting, so my officiant/brideswoman/best friend snagged the downstairs mirror and we went upstairs to the workout room.

Instead of paying someone to do our makeup, we all brought what makeup we own and did each other. It worked fine, and the concern about not knowing how to do makeup for the camera was alleviated when we figured out that we could just have the photographer take pictures as we went.

Also, while none of us are really girly girls, I have to say that the time we spent hanging out that morning, doing our makeup, was one of my favorite parts of my wedding day. Actually being able to focus on the people around me was nice (and not totally possible the rest of the day).

At some point it was decided that it was time for me to get into my dress. I'd taken it on and off myself about 100 times, since I'd had it at home for months and I was constantly changing my mind about it, but it seemed right to have my little sister help me with the official putting on of the dress.

It looks like I'm wearing bright yellow jockey underwear in this picture. Not true.

Then we all sat around and took more pictures for ages, while we waited for the menfolk to show up. They were back at the house/wedding location helping set up and getting ready. Apparently they also ate lunch and forgot that practically every one of us womenfolk is a vegetarian when they brought us back a bunch of beef tamales (oops).

A good shot of the facinator/veil I made. I was getting a bit nervous about seeing P. at that point, and I almost forgot to put it on!

When the men finally got there, we were downstairs and I had to dash into the kitchen to hide (we were doing a "reveal" type shot). Only they didn't know we were waiting in the kitchen (they thought we were still getting ready), so we were there FOREVER. Finally my friend's boyfriend wandered in and we let him know what was up.
One of the inside the kitchen pictures, taken by one of the brideswomen. And just to clarify, we were holding the bananas because we were going to take them with us for snacking. We weren't just posing with them!

Up next, the reveal (which sounds much more dramatic than it was).

All pictures (except the last one) by Bradford & Mia Shepherd.